Please Lord teach us to laugh again, but God don't ever let us forget that we cried.

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

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Cuz Breaking up is Hard to do....

College Choices

Broken Down

The Ring

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

I know this comment doesn't relate to this post, but I was up late and reading back through both of your blogs and I kept asking myself the same question so I thought I'd just ask you!

Throughout many of your posts I find that part of why you stayed was a fear of being alone. That you couldn't not be with anyone. While you are now out of the bad relationship, you're already in deep with the next one before the judge signed. I know your relationship with DH was over a long time ago, and my point isn't the time thing. How can you expect yourself to fully heal if you don't embrace that and be alone?

I know through all of this that you would never settle for the abuse or substances again, but I can't help to think that this will just feed into that fear and possibly cause you to settle for something else in the future (less traumatic, but settling non the less)!